Rob Kalin spent his early years wandering. A 1.4 GPA in high school. Five colleges. A dozen odd jobs, from cashier to carpenter to demolition laborer.

But the wandering was never aimless. Rob was a maker at his core. Photographs, then desks, then websites. And when he couldn't find anywhere to sell the desk he built, he built the store instead. That store became Etsy, a $10B+ marketplace for people as creative as he was.

In today's newsletter, I share Rob's path-less-taken story, along with:

Enjoy following the handmade path…LG

Rob Kalin grew up just outside Boston, the kind of kid who could not sit still. As he got older, the classroom only got harder, and anything he could work on alone held him far longer than a lesson ever did.

Photography held him longest. He built a darkroom in the family basement and taught himself the entire process, from shutter to print.

When he was 16, his mother dropped him on the main street of town and told him not to come home until he had a job. He returned that afternoon with a holiday cashier position at Marshalls making $8 an hour.

By his junior year, Rob had come loose from school completely and stopped going, quietly, without telling anyone. Each morning he left the house like he was walking to class, then turned the other way and traveled all the way into Boston, where he spent his days on photography and picked up work at a camera store.

It came apart when the first report card arrived in the mail. Not failing marks. He had not finished the work, so every course came back incomplete, printed as the letter N. His brothers’ and sisters’ cards were already on the refrigerator, full of high grades. Rob highlighted every N on his own, set it beside theirs, and went to his room.

Once the truancy was out, the adults around him pushed the easy exit. Take the GED. He refused, unwilling to take one more path someone else had picked for him. So he went back and figured out exactly how little it would take to graduate, and did so with a 1.4 GPA.

THE WANDERING YEARS

He and a friend printed fake IDs and slipped into art and design courses at MIT. He crashed lectures at Harvard too, mostly because of a girl, and dropped those once they bored him.

Boston, he decided, was too small for the life he wanted. If you were serious about art, you went to New York. So he went, with almost no money and no plan.

He paid for it with a string of jobs. Cashier. Camera-store stockroom. Freelance carpenter. Demolition laborer. Floor clerk at the Strand for under eight dollars an hour. A stretch as assistant to an elderly philosopher from Vienna.

At night he did construction to save for tuition. Two-by-four framing at first, then a crew renovating a brownstone on the Upper East Side. Up at 5 a.m. A packed subway across town. Barrels of broken plaster hauled down four flights of stairs, the lowest rung on the crew.

He kept studying the whole time. Greek and Latin to start at the New School, then on through other classrooms until he landed at NYU’s Gallatin School, where instead of choosing a major you design your own. He built his around the classics. Greek, Latin, philosophy, literature. Dead languages nobody expected to pay.

He finished mid-year, a full year of loan payments still ahead of him. Degree in hand and no profession to point it at, he left for Paris.

THE $800 WEB SITE

After returning from Paris, Rob stopped by his landlord’s office to drop off his rent check. The landlord was on the phone, holding a $1,600 proposal to build a website for his restaurant, the Acme Bar and Grill on Great Jones Street.

Rob took back his rent check, lifted the proposal out of his hand, and joked he would do it for half, and walked out committed to an $800 website.

He had no idea how websites worked. So he learned a tool called Dreamweaver, took the photos himself, and made what he calls a completely mediocre site. But the process grabbed him.

Word got around. The wife of one of his NYU professors ran a scrappy community forum called Get Crafty, a watering hole where people posted the things they were making. She needed it rebuilt.

Rob could do the front end but not the back, so he tracked down a coder who was a bit of a legend at Gallatin, a guy named Chris Maguire. They built it together, then decided to start a little web shop and go find bigger clients.

THE DESK HE COULDN’T SELL

After months of building other people’s ideas, Rob told Chris he wanted to make something of their own.

He set up a wood shop in his Brooklyn bedroom and started building furniture. Desks, mostly. Desks with a computer built right into them, wood on the outside, glass on top. By his own account they were not very good, but they were his, and that was the whole point.

Right after, a friend who also made furniture asked him for the same thing. Can you make me a site to sell mine? Rob stopped. Instead of making you your own site, he said, why don’t I just build a place where we can both sell what we make?

He had seen it work already on Get Crafty. All those people gathered in one spot, showing each other what they had made. He asked the woman who ran Get Crafty if he could add a little marketplace tab. She thought about it and said no. Commerce did not belong in that community. But she gave him her blessing to go build his own.

OH YES

A year later, Rob sat in an orange chair by an open window in his apartment with all the lights off.

He started sketching the idea. If we start from these values, with this community, then this leads to this leads to this. Thinking of all the things it could be, seeing how big the marketplace idea could get.

He built it with Chris, a third friend named Haim Schoppik, and a digital artist named Jared Tarbell. They moved into Rob’s apartment and worked day and night for about ten weeks. Servers came from Newegg, stacked like pizza boxes on the apartment floor, then driven to a data center in Secaucus, New Jersey. One Christmas Eve was spent crimping cables by hand.

For the name, Rob wanted a short, invented word, something with no established meaning, so the company could define it from scratch. He found it half-listening to a movie. While watching the film ‘8½’, he started writing down the sounds he heard. One Italian phrase caught him, “eh, sì,” roughly “oh, yes.” To Rob it sounded like Etsy. He liked it and kept it.

He looked up the four-letter domain, and against all odds, it was available.

Rob knew he needed money, so he went to people he knew. He went back to a guy whose apartment bar he had just finished building: Spencer Ain. Ain looked at the bar, looked at Rob, and said, “If you can build that, I’m sure you can do a good job building this. Come back tomorrow and I’ll have a check for you.”

The check was for $50,000. Ain’s brother Judson put in more. A third investor, restaurateur Sean Meenan, whose place was across the street, joined too. All three had known Rob personally and had seen what he could actually build.

Rob thought $50,000 was an enormous amount of money. He believed it might be enough to run Etsy until the company became profitable. It was not, but it gave the team enough runway to finish the site and put it online.

GOING LIVE…AND THEN GOING TO DINNER

On June 18, 2005, Etsy.com launched. They pushed the button and went out for dinner.

When they got back, a few people had wandered in. They posted about it on Get Crafty and Craftster, and it started to spread the slow way, blog by blog, Boing Boing here, a mention there.

Already active in the online craft community themselves, they invited members of existing forums onto Etsy and let sellers list items without fees for the first few months, while the billing system was still being built.

Rob flew to craft fairs and handed out postcards explaining what Etsy was. He discovered that 100% of the people had never heard of it and had trouble pronouncing it.

FRIENDS OF ETSY

To help come up with ideas to grow the site, Rob wrote a two-sentence fan letter to the founders of Flickr, the coolest website on the early web. He told them he loved what they had built, showed them what he had made, and asked for advice.

They wrote back and told him to come to San Francisco. That trip turned into introductions to investors and a small round of financing Flickr’s Caterina Fake and Stewart Butterfield helped assemble, later called the Friends of Etsy round. Union Square Ventures joined. So did Delicious founder Joshua Schachter.

Rob stayed wary of venture capital. He wanted Etsy to stay hungry and stay independent. He resisted the VCs who wanted twenty percent or nothing. When one of them pushed him toward an investor named Fred Wilson, Rob offered him about one percent of the company, yes or no. Fred said yes on the spot.

Within ten months, Etsy had 10,000 sellers and 40,000 buyers with no marketing and only a few press mentions. 

THE BROOKLYN OFFICE

When they finally rented a full floor near the Brooklyn Bridge in late 2006, Rob lived in it. The building shut the heat off outside business hours, so that first winter he slept on a blow-up camping pad, freezing, working eighteen hours a day, blissfully. The rest of the team came in each morning to find him already at his desk in the same clothes.

The office was not just a place to work. It was a room the community could walk into. Rob wanted Etsy to feel like the craft fairs he had been flying to, only bigger. Sellers stopped by when they were in New York. Members hung out. The floor filled up with the same kind of makers who filled the marketplace online.

THE ETSY FLYWHEEL

The community carried the growth. Sellers kept bringing more sellers. Members promoted one another's shops through Treasuries, the themed collections Etsy had introduced that let anyone curate a gallery of other people's work. Search by color, browse by geography, the Time Machine that showed newly listed items scrolling by, all of it gave people something to talk about beyond the products themselves.

Sellers also kept bringing their own buyers. Every maker who joined Etsy brought their craft-fair customers, their blog readers, their friends, their previous customers on other platforms. Each seller became a small marketing channel for the whole marketplace. They had created a growth flywheel and Rob and the team kept showing up at art shows and flea markets, handing out postcards, buying makers lunch, listening to what they needed.

The one-millionth sale came in July 2007. By November, buyers were purchasing roughly 300,000 items a month worth $4.3 million, a 43 percent jump from October.

The kid with the 1.4 GPA was running a company that investors compared to early eBay.

A DIFFERENT ANIMAL

By 2008, Etsy had become a different animal from the one Rob had built. Fifty employees. Tens of millions in venture capital raised. Twenty thousand items selling every day. Members whose livelihoods depended on the site working. The company that had started in his apartment now needed the kind of operational leadership a large marketplace requires, and Rob was the first to say it was not his strength.

He hired a former NPR executive as chief operating officer, then handed her the CEO role. He announced it his own way, calling an all-hands meeting while wearing bright coral nail polish. Everyone knows male CEOs cannot wear nail polish, he told the room, so I am not CEO anymore.

He came back as CEO in 2010, wanting to restore what he called a sense of wonder and poetry and foolishness. But scaling a company of that size called for a different kind of leadership than the one that had built it. In July 2011, Rob stepped away from the company. What he had built was strong enough to keep going without him.

Rob Kalin’s founder story works because it is built on visible proof, fueled by the people Etsy served, and connected to something larger than his own success. He gave his community something they could experience and a role they could play. Here are 3 lessons that can help founders make their own stories easier to believe, remember, and share.

#1. Put the Proof on the Table

Rob rarely asked people to invest in a promise alone. Spencer Ain had seen the apartment bar Rob built. Flickr’s founders saw a working version of Etsy. Makers could open a shop, list their products, and judge the marketplace for themselves. The work made his claims credible before he ever made the pitch.

Action: Lead with evidence. Show the prototype, first sale, customer result, or scrappy solution that proves your idea had substance.

#2. Turn Customers Into Champions

Etsy’s sellers did not sit on the sidelines of the company story. They brought their craft-fair customers, blog readers, friends, and fellow makers onto the platform. They promoted one another through Treasuries and helped Etsy spread through creative communities. Each seller became part customer, part storyteller, and part growth channel.

Action: Give customers a clear role in your story. Highlight what they achieved, then give them a simple message or result they can share with others.

#3. Make the Story Bigger Than You

Rob was the founder, but Etsy’s story was never only about him. It was about giving independent makers a place to sell their work and helping handmade goods compete in an online economy built for mass commerce. That larger purpose gave sellers, buyers, employees, and investors a reason to care beyond Rob’s personal ambition.

Action: Connect your experience to the people you serve and the change you want to create. Your story grows stronger when others can see themselves inside it.

Etsy has grown into a massive marketplace in just 18 years. Today, it features more than 100 million listings, connects roughly 93 million buyers with nearly 9 million sellers, and attracts roughly 316 million monthly site visits.

The company generated $10.5 billion in gross merchandise sales and $2.9 billion in revenue, all while organizing its marketplace across 30+ top-level categories.

In “The Deal: Rob Kalin, Etsy Inc.”, the 27-year-old Etsy founder explains how he attracted investors without a startup track record. His approach was simple: build the product, show people what worked, and be honest about what he wanted. 

Kalin also shares why he resisted giving up too much equity and why he preferred the risk of building Etsy independently over selling too early. A great perspective from a founder who believed the product should do most of the talking. Watch here:

The Deal: Rob Kalin, Etsy Inc

https://youtu.be/TguWQ7xEWyU?si=dwnJ7uuldkq5gBFL

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